The 7 Easiest Ways to Get People to Like You More

Whether it's for business, or for your personal life, these 7 things will help you get more people to like you.

Why is this important? Because the more people that like you, the more people you can serve, and it's when you serve more people that you begin to see incredible joy and success in your life.

"No one has ever become poor by giving." -Anne Frank

So, as vain as it sounds, it's important to get people to like you. Yes, you can get more subscribers, more followers, get more business, have more friends – but ultimately, it should always come from a place of service and helping more people.

Unless you only pay attention to the first 20 seconds of the video, then you'll find that all of these things can actually be done for free.

Items and resources mentioned in this video:

How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie:

The Income Stream (my daily morning show):

Learn People's Names Fast (from Jim Qwik):

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Timestamps for this video:

2:12 – Use Names
4:52 – Use "You" in Groups
6:37 – Be Vulnerable
8:51 – Be Weird
11:02 – Show Up Consistently
13:03 – The "What's Up?"
16:28 – Smile


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    18 Responses to The 7 Easiest Ways to Get People to Like You More

    1. Meo Salati - Financial Freedom Journey April 6, 2020 at 6:33 pm #

      Pat you taught me so much about online marketing and growing my online business. you genuinely improved my life in more than you can imagine. thank you. you inspired me to launch a channel about financial freedom and making money from home. i would love if you keep an eye out for it

      • Pat Flynn April 6, 2020 at 8:58 pm #

        You’re amazing Meo, way to take action and achieve your goals!

      • JonesRandomKnowledge April 7, 2020 at 9:42 am #

        Meo checked out your channel congrats on starting looking forward to your success.

    2. Rebecca Young April 6, 2020 at 6:33 pm #

      Love the t-shirt!

    3. Susanna Wood April 6, 2020 at 6:34 pm #

      How to Win Friends and Influence People!

    4. Lazy Rick April 6, 2020 at 6:38 pm #

      “How to Win Friends and Influence People” is a great book Pat. Right now (on my night stand) I have Dale Carnegie’s “How to Stop Worry and Start Living.” I’m finding it very applicable given the circumstances we find ourselves in now.

    5. rap and combat. April 6, 2020 at 6:41 pm #

      nice play on Part Two of “How To Win Friends and Influence People,” Pat. haha

    6. Susanna Wood April 6, 2020 at 6:45 pm #

      Oh dear! Guess I’m not showing up! Grrrr….been building a website for 5 years and doing SFS for, I don’t know, maybe 2 years. So embarrassed to admit this!

    7. Ellen M. Gregg April 6, 2020 at 7:15 pm #

      I *love* the suggestion to reach out to five people/commenters in their DMs with a quick message of thanks. So smart, and that feels so good; purposeful and helpful. Also… “Resting boring face” a.k.a. “Resting beard face” is hilarious. 🙂

    8. JUST SAMSON April 6, 2020 at 7:15 pm #

      Resting Beard Face. Totally using that. Lol. This was great Pat. 1-7 are so solid. Thanks for doing what you do. Appreciate you.

    9. Crafty Recycler April 6, 2020 at 7:51 pm #

      Good tips Pat. Lol on look on your face. I have a Rcf- Resting concerned face.

    10. Hugot Radio April 6, 2020 at 7:52 pm #

      Resting Beard Face LOL

    11. Debbie Mason April 6, 2020 at 8:06 pm #

      Really enjoyed this video Pat! I to read How to Win Finds and Influence People and it helped me so much throughout my life and career! I’m weird too!! Hahaha!
      Appreciate you very much as I journey into the Podcast arena!! Thank you for all you do!

      • Pat Flynn April 6, 2020 at 8:19 pm #

        Thanks Debbie, you’re a rockstar!

    12. Chris Percy April 6, 2020 at 8:35 pm #

      Wow, I can’t believe you called me weird. Unsubscribing.
      Just kidding, love you Pat <3

    13. Dani Galbraith April 6, 2020 at 9:17 pm #

      Pat, another great video with tips that are easy to implement. Love that all of these strategies are free!

      High five for teaching Keoni that weird is good! And good job leading by example! 😀

    14. Grandma Goodie's Bible Stories April 6, 2020 at 10:32 pm #

      Pat Flynn is living proof this works! I shared it with my daughters because both have businesses and are committed to showing up in real ways with a genuine presence. This has such easy, doable advice anyone can implement in person and online!

      • JonesRandomKnowledge April 7, 2020 at 9:48 am #

        Your name intrigued me had to sub. Liked the thumbnails, eventually will watch videos. Cool way of sharing.

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